Here, as in general when interpreting the synastric aspects of the tenth house, it is important to take into account our mutual age, social, spiritual and energetic position with our partner. If it is approximately the same, then the partner can, in case of one or another difficult situation, turn to me for friendly advice, without, however, attaching special importance to it. However, my reaction may turn out to be much more serious and important for him (and for me) than he assumes. I will most likely clearly see his situation, at least its surface layer, but when offering him this or that behavior option, I will still subconsciously be guided by my ethics and my ideas about the world as a whole... the psychologist will say that I I am not objective and even biased, because I am trying to solve my problems using someone else’s material. Indeed, the karmic meaning of the aspect (for me) is that the partner, by his very existence, confronts me with the need for practical choices, although apparently this may not be the case, for example, both of us may consider that we are dealing with his problems. If my partner is significantly older than me or is higher on the social ladder, he may be very tempted to teach me how to live in practice: “You should go to the physics department, not the psychology department, because in life you need to do serious business, and not cheat.” - and fool people's heads." Such advice will cause me a strong protest, or I will be inclined to obey his will unquestioningly - for the time being, until my strength increases enough to enter into a battle with my partner for independence, just as a teenage girl fights with by her dogmatic mother, who regulates her daughter’s life to the point of absurdity. If a partner is inclined to perceive me as an adviser, a senior comrade or a practical spiritual teacher, then I will have a dangerous temptation to control his will and tightly control initiatives - which ends in their termination and his slavish submission to me, and this at a low level of elaboration may be my goal . Working through would provide him with a true spiritual guide and would give me a refreshing breeze of concrete problems with ethical overtones, none of which could be easily resolved.
Mercury
My partner will have a great tendency to teach me how to live, especially in words: I’m doing this and that wrong, but it should be quite the opposite. He may perceive these teachings as a form of pleasant pastime, nothing more, especially if his Mercury is in, say, the third or fifth house of the natal chart; however, his conversations, including those not directly related to me, can lead to the actualization of my significant choices, and often the issues that he discusses with me are much more important to me than I might think. In theory, our relationship should be built the other way around, that is, I should work on his mental picture of the world, explaining with specific examples what holes and defects there are in it and how he should correctly understand the situations he faces. However, first I need to understand my own practical ethics and find a common language with my partner, and this requires some effort. If the partner’s Mercury is strong, he can (even without meaning it) with his conversations make me feel depressed, lack of freedom, and even activate my social inferiority complexes; if my tenth house is strong and, especially if I have sufficient social status, I can use my partner in his Mercury manifestations - for example, he will print my manuscripts, run small errands or collect information on issues that interest me. But he will learn to give me sound and, especially, spiritual advice only after carefully working out the aspect, when we both understand how important his opinion is for me.
Venus
If I marry a young lady whose Venus falls in my tenth house, I will look at her all my life like a page at a queen... at least she will expect that from me. However, at a low level, this aspect strongly smacks of a marriage of convenience (on my part), since I will be tempted to use the beauty and social status of a partner for narrow selfish purposes. In interpretation, much depends on the relative strength of Venus and the tenth house and the overall energetic and social balance in our relationship: for example, the superiority of a partner and his strong Venus creates a situation in which the partner seems to me to be standing on an unattainable peak, and I can suffer very much from the wounded self-esteem; if my partner is younger than me and lower on the social ladder, I can take his fate to heart and begin to guide his social advancement; if he is inclined to listen to my advice, and I am not too self-interested, then it can bring him a lot of benefit, at least in my opinion. With a weak tenth house, but strong Venus, a partner may inspire me for a short time, and for the first time in my life I will act according to my conscience or write a poem dedicated to him - but this impulse is unlikely to be sustainable. In general, my partner may seem cold in my reaction to his charms and smiles, but if he tries to force his charm, I would rather take decisive action than melt and relax.
Mars
Here Mars culminates, and my partner and I are potentially capable of a lot, but first we need to prevent some complications. The partner’s activity may be directed in my direction, firstly, not very tactfully, and secondly, I would like to solve some issues myself, without outside help, which my partner for some reason does not want to understand. If a partner has a strong Mars, his interference in my affairs can take a lot of weight off me - he will make my choices for me, and internally I will hold him responsible for this choice... but when the results conflict with our plans, my attitude towards my partner and, most importantly, his active participation in my life and its turns may change to the opposite. This aspect evokes especially strong feelings when a partner is higher than me on the social ladder: here I can outwardly admire him and obey him in everything, but secretly hate him for the humiliation to which he (as I believe) subjects me. For spiritual relationships, this aspect also represents the temptation of too rude and straightforward influence on the student, whose tenth house is the teacher’s Mars. In this case, outwardly, the student’s choice may correspond to the teacher’s requirements, but in the subconscious of both, lower programs may be activated, reducing the effect of interaction to a negative value. Here the partner needs to learn to restrain his impulses to help me in my situations of choice, remembering that my inner reality is very different from his own; I need to get used to the fact that the situations of choice that my partner’s energy puts me in front of are always of a spiritual nature and must be decided primarily from ethical rather than pragmatic positions.
Jupiter
Jupiter is in its fall, and it can often seem to me that my partner is asserting himself at my expense, especially when he, with a condescending air, begins to teach me how I should act in a particular situation. However, if my partner is higher on the social ladder than me, I can tolerate such treatment, hoping for his patronage. I can really get patronage, but it’s hard to say how much I will need it. Advancement up the hierarchical ladder requires overcoming long and difficult obstacles, and good advice and even a word put in to a high-ranking boss is nothing more than help at the beginning of the journey. A partner can do me a disservice by reducing (even against his will) the responsibility of my choices and not taking my ethical limitations seriously enough - from his point of view, in my case there are no significant problems, and they are unlikely to arise. In this he can be very mistaken, especially if my tenth house is afflicted, but his Jupiter will not allow him to notice this, at least at the beginning of the development of our relationship. If my partner takes the position of a spiritual teacher, then I need to remind myself every time that my life has been given to me under my responsibility and in no case should I put on my partner’s broad back those decisions that I must make myself, even if he does not object against their severity: I will still have to overcome the consequences of the wrong choice in the end, although he can interfere in my life in such a way that from now on I have absolutely nothing to worry about. But that still doesn’t happen.
Saturn
A relationship with this partner is unlikely to develop quickly and easily for me - unless my own Saturn is very strong, and I consider a serious and responsible attitude towards life to be the main virtue. But no matter how my Saturn stands, in situations of external choice or decision-making, my partner will certainly condemn me for frivolity, and perhaps the shortcomings of my ethics, or even accuse me of dishonesty and lack of a sense of duty. However, it is possible that he himself will have a heightened sense of responsibility towards me, especially in matters of my correct choice of specific life paths, for example, career advancement, and his criticism will be an attempt to transfer onto me a subconscious feeling of guilt in front of me. If the partner’s Saturn is not worked out, then most often his instructions and advice in my situations of choice will be too cruel, dogmatic, down-to-earth and ultimately oriented towards his own reality and problems. The usual introduction in such cases: “If I were you, I would do such and such,” may cause my protest, since he is not in my place and has absolutely no idea what it is like, but, nevertheless, undertakes to judge and advise. Working through this is difficult for both, but especially for the partner, who needs to moderate himself in those manifestations towards me that seem to him absolutely necessary and equally moral; I should learn to learn from his position the ethical lessons of behavior in election situations: they are moral for me much more often than I am initially inclined to think. If our relationship as a whole works out, then my partner will be very tempted to act as a wise adviser and spiritual mentor for me, and this may also become a temptation for me, since it will seem to me that I can shift all responsibility for my life to him, and, until this delusion dissipates, I will commit many actions, the consequences of which I will overcome with great difficulty.
Chiron
My pronounced situations of choice, as well as advancement along the career and evolutionary ladders, will attract the attention of my partner, but his reactions will not always suit me. It is likely that his advice and suggestions will only aggravate my doubts, introduce chaos and present me with dead-end situations, from which, it seems to me, a reasonable way out can still be found. Worse, my partner may present my situation in such a strange light that the entire carefully developed system of preferences on which I am accustomed to rely in practical matters will crackle. The karmic meaning of the aspect for me lies precisely in this: under the influence of a partner, I can see contradictions both in my external ethical system (that is, the rules of behavior in the world around me), and its discrepancy with my life positions and fundamental attitudes - and find ways to rebuild and both, in accordance with the direction of their evolutionary development. But, of course, neither I nor my partner at first may be unaware of such serious consequences for me (as well as for him) of our acquaintance, and I may well regard his advice as inappropriate or awkward jokes that are quite serious for me at the moment, but no further, reasons. If the relationship works out, then in any case I will be able to appreciate my partner’s ability to look at my boss’s problems with fresh eyes and relieve their tension - here he will help me develop a sense of humor, and this is already a lot. If I firmly resist his influence, at some point he may become an indirect cause of the sudden collapse of my social career and the beginning of my own spiritual development.
Uranus
If I subsequently gain enough strength and a sense of humor, I may be able to appreciate all the ingenuity and originality of the ideas proposed to me by my partner to solve the problems of actual choice that once faced me; however, at this time his interference is likely to make me feel negative. His ideas will seem fantastic, overly eccentric and generally confusing to me. Moreover, I will be able to notice that his very appearance in situations involving my responsible choice aggravates my situation and confuses already difficult circumstances. Sometimes his intervention turns out to be constructive, but this is the exception rather than the rule; much more important for me is the opportunity to deepen my understanding of external situations that seemed routine to me, but due to the intervention of a partner, they discovered unexpected facets and connections with external and internal problems that seemed very remote from them. If the partner’s Uranus is active and poorly developed, it may seem to me threatening to destroy all my plans, but this will be a strong exaggeration: rather, the partner will successfully demonstrate to me my short-sightedness and the limitations of my planning; however, if my tenth house is afflicted and I behave unethically with my partner, a force that is destructive to my projects can actually work through it. However, this aspect poses a much greater danger for a partner, who should mainly monitor his own practical ethics in dealing with me, paying less attention to my choices and career, and in any case not think that he can have free fun in these areas for my check. In general, this is a rather stressful aspect for a couple, requiring significant dedication and rejection of thinking stereotypes to work through.
Neptune
In a harmonious relationship, discussing the situations of my choice and professional advancement can lead the partner to an almost ecstatic state; in any case, it will be almost impossible for me to wait for sober advice and opinions from him. In difficult cases for me, especially if I ask him for help, my partner may really want to help me, otherwise he will be overcome by a feeling of guilt, which, however, he will tend to repress into the subconscious or project onto me. His usual reproach may sound something like this: “When you have difficulties and need to look for ways to get out of the current situation, you present it so vaguely that I don’t understand anything or understand it completely wrong.” In turn, I can notice that the appearance of a partner often confuses my cards in upcoming affairs, as well as relationships with superiors and subordinates. In matters of my practical ethics, my partner may seem capable of getting confused in the simplest problems and even confusing myself, which is quite dangerous for both of us, since in this case even the most obvious unseemly actions are somehow blurred and begin to look almost decent. It may seem to my partner that I am deliberately fooling him with my problems, distorting the true state of affairs and concealing the most important details - and to some extent he will be right; at least, an exact mutual understanding will be difficult for us for a long time. But at a high level, a partner, on the contrary, will help me rise to the level of selfless religious ethics and understand what the will of God is in the specific case of my choice - but this requires a certain elaboration of not only his Neptune, but also my tenth house and the entire chart, in particular, the fourth house, that is, religious views on your life in general.
Pluto
At first, it may seem to me that the presence of a partner ruins all my upcoming affairs and plans, or at least spoils them greatly. However, much later I will notice that the root of the evil lies not in him, but in myself, more precisely, in the defects of my practical ethics and system of proposals, and the influence of my partner is that he accelerates the collapse of my doomed or very dubious plans . Then constructive interaction between us becomes possible, because my partner, like no one else (if, of course, he learns to be attentive to me and my circumstances), can see the defects of my choices and their inconsistency with my internal ethical system, even if I am poorly aware of it. At first, my partner may seem like a rather difficult person to me, at least during the “showdown”, when he accurately and categorically points out to me the flaws and vices of my future planning, and also criticizes my choices from a spiritual point of view. He should learn to be as precise and correct as possible in such discussions, otherwise I may be completely blocked or completely break off all contacts; I need to be patient and be somewhat sacrificial, since one way or another there is a certain amount of truth in what my partner claims, and it’s better for me to do a little cleansing for myself right on the spot, since an opportunity has arisen. However, the partner should not perceive my problems of choice as not relating to him: after all, I am nothing more than his mirror, and in this case more than significant, so all the criticism addressed to me can apply to him to a much greater extent; and if he doesn’t believe in it now, then over time he risks being clearly convinced in his own skin.
Sun
Here, as in general when interpreting the synastric aspects of the tenth
at home, it is important to take into account our mutual age, social,
spiritual and energetic position. If it is approximately the same, then
the partner can, in the event of one or another difficult situation,
turn to me for friendly advice, without, however, giving it any special
meanings. However, my reaction may turn out to be much more serious and important
for him (and for me) than he assumes. I'll most likely see him clearly
situation, at least its surface layer, but offering him this or that
different type of behavior, I will still subconsciously focus on my
ethics and my ideas about the world as a whole... a psychologist will say that I am not
objective and even biased, since I’m trying to decide on someone else’s material
your problems. Indeed, the karmic meaning of the aspect (for me)
is that my partner, by his mere existence, puts me in front of
the need for practical choices, although apparently this may not be
so, for example, we can both consider ourselves to be dealing with his problems. If
my partner is significantly older than me or is higher on the social ladder,
he may be strongly tempted to teach me to live in practice: “You
you should go to the physics department, not the psychology department, because in
in life you need to do serious business, and not blah-blah and fool
people's heads." Such advice will cause me a strong protest, or I will
inclined to obey his will unquestioningly - for the time being, until my
strength will not increase enough to enter into battle with a partner for
independence, like a teenage girl struggling with her
a dogmatic mother who regulates her daughter’s life to the point of absurdity. If the partner
tend to perceive me as an adviser, senior comrade or practical
spiritual teacher, then I will be dangerously tempted to control his will and
strictly control initiatives - which ends with their termination and its
slavish submission to me, and this at a low level of elaboration may be mine
purpose. Processing will give him a true spiritual mentor, and for me -
a refreshing breeze of specific problems with ethical implications, none of
which cannot be solved easily.Luna
The archetypal image of this aspect is the wife (Moon) giving instructions to her husband
(tenth house), sending him to the grocery store. I will be inclined to lecture
partner on specific examples of his wrong behavior, how to live in
lunar sense of this verb, that is, to settle in life with maximum
comfort and minimal effort. However, here the Moon is imprisoned, and not at all
the fact that my partner will adequately or at least tolerantly accept my teachings - they
may seem to him formal, rigid and generally not intended for
him. A partner, without wanting it or meaning it, can put me
facing a significant choice on which my future will depend: this
especially likely if he is a member of my family: then his health,
the general mood, comfort and living conditions will constantly disturb me
or, in any case, will become the subject of my direct concerns, as if fate
handed her partner over to my care. If I supplant these (correct) ones of mine
feelings into the subconscious or, even worse, I’ll project the situation onto it, explaining
him that he is obliged to look after me and take care of my health (and, of course,
your own, to the extent necessary in connection with the above), and a partner,
having submitted, accepts such conditions, then he and the situation as a whole will become for me
black teachers and my parasitism will cost me after a while
very expensive (for example, big troubles at work are possible,
financial loss or dismissal). With a strong Moon, the partner can begin
cruelly exploit me, abusing my sense of duty towards
towards him, pity, etc., and this will also be a temptation for me - I must
know exactly where I should stop; only then our relationship
will return to normal and become mutually acceptable and even constructive
- and here it is important for me not to be proud of my partner’s lunar achievements, or not
begin to secretly develop complexes in connection with them.
Mercury
My partner will have a greater tendency to teach me how to live, especially in words:
And I’m doing this wrong, and this, but it should be quite the opposite. These teachings he
can be perceived as a form of pleasant pastime, nothing more,
especially if his Mercury is in, say, the third or fifth house of the natal
cards; however, his conversations, including those not related to me
directly, can lead to the actualization of my significant choices, and
often the issues he discusses with me are much more important to me than I am
I can think. In theory, our relationship should be built the other way around, that is, I
you should work on his mental picture of the world, explaining in specific
examples of what holes and defects there are in it and how he should correctly understand
his situations. However, first I need to deal with
own practical ethics and find a common language with a partner, and this
requires some effort. If the partner’s Mercury is strong, he can (not even
having this in mind) with your conversations make me feel depressed,
lack of freedom and even activate my social inferiority complexes;
if my tenth house is strong and, especially if I have sufficient
social status, I can use a partner in his Mercurial
manifestations - for example, he will print my manuscripts, run through small
orders or collect information on issues that interest me. But healthy
and even more so, he will learn to give me spiritual advice only after careful
working out the aspect when we both understand how much his opinion is for me
essential.
Venus
If I marry a young lady whose Venus falls in my tenth house, I
all my life I will look at her like a page at a queen... at least she
will expect this from me. However, at a low level this aspect is strongly
smacks of an arranged marriage (on my part), since I will be tempted
use the beauty and social status of a partner for narrow selfish purposes.
In interpretation, much depends on the relative strength of Venus and the tenth house
and the overall energetic and social balance in our relationships: e.g.
the superiority of the partner and his strong Venus create a situation in which
my partner will seem to me to be standing on an unattainable peak, and I can very much
suffer from wounded pride; if the partner is younger than me and stands lower by
social ladder, I can take his fate to heart and begin
manage its social promotion; if he is inclined to listen to my advice,
and I am not too selfish, then they can bring him a lot of benefit, at least
at least, in my understanding. If the tenth house is weak, but Venus is strong, the partner
may inspire me for a short time, and for the first time in my life I will act according to
conscience or write a poem dedicated to it - but this impulse is unlikely
will be sustainable. In general, my partner may find my reaction rather cold
to his charms and smiles, but if he tries to force his charm, I
I would rather take decisive action than melt and relax.
Mars
Here Mars culminates, and my partner and I are potentially capable of
a lot, but first you need to prevent some complications.
The partner’s activity can be directed in my direction, firstly, not
too tactful, and secondly, I would like to resolve some issues myself, without
outside help, which the partner for some reason does not want to understand. If
partner has a strong Mars, his interference in my affairs can take away from
a great burden on me - he will make my choice for me, and internally I
I will hold him responsible for this choice... but when the results
will conflict with our plans, my attitude towards my partner and,
most importantly, his active participation in my life and its turns may be replaced by
to the opposite. This aspect evokes especially strong feelings when
my partner is higher than me on the social ladder: here I can outwardly
admire and obey in everything, but secretly hate for the humiliation that
he (I think) exposes me to this. For spiritual relationships this
the aspect also represents the temptation to be too rude and straightforward
impact on a student in whose tenth house the teacher’s Mars falls. Wherein
Outwardly, the student’s choice may correspond to the teacher’s requirements, but in
in the subconscious of both, lower programs can be activated, reducing the effect
interaction to a negative value. Here the partner needs to learn
restrain your impulses to help me in my situations of choice, remembering that my
the internal reality is very different from his own; I also need
get used to the fact that the situations of choice that energy puts me in front of
partner, are always of a spiritual nature and must be resolved first
from ethical rather than pragmatic positions.
Jupiter
Jupiter is in fall, and I may often feel like my partner
asserts himself at my expense, especially when he looks condescendingly
begins to teach me how I should act in this or that particular
situations. However, if my partner is higher than me on the social ladder, I can
tolerate such treatment, hoping for his protection. Patronage
I really can find it, but it will turn out to be so necessary for me, to say
difficult. Moving up the hierarchical ladder requires overcoming long and
difficult obstacles, and good advice and even a spoken word to a high boss
the word is nothing more than a help at the beginning of the path. A partner can serve me well
disservice by reducing (even against my will) the responsibility of my choices and
not taking my ethical limitations seriously enough - from his point of view
In my case, there are no significant problems, and they are unlikely to arise. IN
in this he could be very mistaken, especially if my tenth house is afflicted, but
his Jupiter will not allow him to notice this, at least at the beginning of development
our relationship. If my partner takes the position of a spiritual teacher, then I
I need to remind myself every time that my life was given to me according to my
responsibility and in no case shift it to the broad back
partner those decisions that I have to make myself, even if he doesn’t mind
against their gravity: still the consequences of the wrong choice in the end
I will have to overcome, although he may interfere in my life with such
looking like from now on I have absolutely nothing to worry about. But still not so
It happens.
Saturn
A relationship with this partner is unlikely to develop quickly and easily for me - unless
that my own Saturn is very strong, and I consider it serious and responsible
attitude towards life as the main virtue. But no matter how my Saturn stands, in
in situations of external choice or decision-making, the partner will certainly condemn
me for frivolity, and perhaps the shortcomings of my ethics, or even
will accuse you of dishonesty and lack of a sense of duty. However, it is possible that
he himself will have a heightened sense of responsibility towards me,
especially in matters of the correct choice of specific life paths for me,
for example, career advancement, and his criticism will be an attempt
transferring to me a subconscious feeling of guilt in front of me. If Saturn
partner has not been worked out, then most often his instructions and advice in my situations
choices will be too cruel, dogmatic, mundane and
ultimately oriented towards his own reality and problems.
The usual introduction in such cases is: “If I were you, I would do something like this,”
may cause my protest, since he is not in my place and
has absolutely no idea what it is like, but nevertheless takes it
judge and advise. Working through this is difficult for both, but especially for
a partner who needs to moderate himself in his manifestations towards me,
which seem to him absolutely necessary and equally moral;
I should learn to learn ethical lessons from his position
in election situations: they are moral for me much more often than I am
initially inclined to think. If our relationship as a whole works out, then
there will be a strong temptation for my partner to act as a wise adviser for me
and a spiritual mentor, and this may be a temptation for me as well,
because it seems to me that I can shift all responsibility for my
life on him, and until this delusion is dispelled, do a lot
actions, the consequences of which will be overcome with great difficulty.
Chiron
My pronounced situations of choice, as well as career advancement and
evolutionary ladders will attract the attention of my partner, but his
reactions do not always suit me. It is likely that his advice and
the proposals will only deepen my doubts, bring chaos and appear to be dead ends
situations from which, it seems to me, a reasonable way out can still be found.
Even worse, my partner may present my situation in such a strange light,
that the whole carefully developed system of preferences, to which I
accustomed to relying on practical matters. Karmic meaning of the aspect for me
is precisely this: under the influence of a partner, I can see contradictions
both in its external ethical system (that is, the rules of conduct in
the surrounding world), as well as its discrepancy with my life positions and
fundamental attitudes - and find ways to rebuild both, in
in accordance with the direction of its evolutionary development. But, of course, neither
I and my partner may not initially suspect such serious consequences
for me (as well as for him) of our acquaintance, and I may well consider
his advice as inappropriate or awkward jokes is enough for me
serious at the moment, but not further, reasons. If the relationship works out,
then in any case I will be able to evaluate my partner’s skill with fresh eyes
look at my boss problems and relieve their stress - here he is
will help me develop a sense of humor, and this is already a lot. If I
I will strongly resist his influences, at some point he may become
indirect cause of the sudden collapse of my social career and the beginning
own spiritual development.
Uranus
If I subsequently gain enough strength and a sense of humor, I,
perhaps I will be able to appreciate all the ingenuity and originality of ideas,
proposed to me by my partner to solve the problems that once faced me
current choice; however, at present his intervention is likely to
will make me feel negative. His ideas will seem to me
fantastic, overly eccentric and generally confusing to me.
Moreover, I will be able to notice that his mere appearance in situations
implying my responsible choice, aggravates my situation and confuses and
already difficult circumstances. Sometimes his intervention turns out to be
constructive, but this is the exception rather than the rule; much more important for
me the opportunity to deepen my understanding of external situations presented
routine to me, but due to the intervention of a partner, they discovered unexpected
for me, boundaries and connections with seemingly very distant external and
internal problems. If the partner's Uranus is active and poorly developed, he
may seem threatening to ruin all my plans, but it will
a strong exaggeration: rather, my partner will successfully demonstrate to me my
short-sightedness and limitations of my planning; however, if my
the tenth house is afflicted, and I behave unethically with my partner, through it
a force that is destructive to my projects can actually work. However
This aspect poses a significantly greater danger to the partner,
who should mainly monitor his own practical
ethics in dealing with me, paying less attention to my choices and career and
in any case, do not think that he can do it for free in these areas
have fun at my expense. In general, this is a rather stressful aspect for the couple,
requiring significant dedication and refusal to work through
thinking stereotypes.
Neptune
In a harmonious relationship, discussing situations of my choice and
professional advancement can drive a partner almost into ecstasy
state; in any case, wait for sober advice and opinions from him
will be practically impossible. In difficult cases for me, especially if I
I ask him for help, my partner may really want to help me, otherwise they
a feeling of guilt takes over, which he, however, will be inclined to repress into
subconscious or project onto me. His usual reproach may sound
something like this: “When you have difficulties and need to look for ways
way out of this situation, you present it so vaguely that I can’t
understand or understand completely wrong.” In turn, I can notice
that the appearance of a partner often confuses my cards in upcoming affairs, as well as
relationships with superiors and subordinates. In matters of my practical ethics
my partner may seem capable of getting confused in the simplest problems and
even confuse myself, which is quite dangerous for both of us, since
in this way even the most obvious unseemly actions are somehow blurred and
starting to look almost decent. It may seem to my partner that I
I deliberately fool him with my problems, distorting the true situation
things and hiding the most important details - and to some extent he will be right;
at least, an exact mutual understanding will be difficult for us for a long time. But
at a high level, a partner, on the contrary, will help me rise to the level
selfless religious ethics and understand what God's will is in
specific case of my choice - but this requires a certain
working out not only his Neptune, but also my tenth house and the entire chart, in
in particular, the fourth house, that is, religious views on one’s life in
in general.
Pluto
At first, I may feel like my partner's presence is ruining everything.
my upcoming affairs and plans, or at least spoils them greatly.
However, much later I will notice that the root of evil lies not in him, but
in myself, more precisely, in the defects of my practical ethics and system
proposals, and the influence of the partner is that he accelerates the collapse
my plans that were doomed in advance or that were very dubious. Then it becomes
constructive interaction between us is possible, because a partner like no one
to another (if, of course, he learns to be attentive to me and my
circumstances) the defects of my choices and their inconsistency with my
internal ethical system, even if it was poorly understood by me.
At first, my partner may seem like a rather difficult person to me, at least
case, during the “showdown”, when he accurately and categorically points out to me
flaws and defects in my planning for the future, and also criticizes my choices with
spiritual point of view. He should learn to be in such discussions
as accurate and correct as possible, otherwise I may be completely blocked or
completely break all contacts; I need to be patient and tune in
partly sacrificial, since one way or another a certain amount of truth is that
my partner says there is, and it’s better for me to do a little cleaning for myself
right on the spot, since the opportunity presented itself. However, the partner does not
should perceive my problems of choice as not related to him: after all, I
nothing more than his mirror, and in this case more than significant,
so all the criticism addressed to me may be to a much greater extent
treat him himself; and if he doesn’t believe it now, then over time
risks seeing it clearly in his own skin.
The aspect makes my partner unpredictable for me at times, and sometimes simply brilliant - these are, at least, my personal impressions, but here a lot depends on the activity of Uranus in his chart. If Uranus is weak, this aspect will affect my expectations with some zest associated with my partner... however, our constant communication can bring his Uranus to life, and then the partner in my presence will feel sharp energy activations, emotional ups and downs, even bouts of inspiration - but From here to true creativity is quite a long way off, but it can be quite easy for me to inspire him to this or that outrage or eccentric disgrace - I just need to not speak directly (Sun), and not put pressure (Mars) and not persuade (Mercury), but just turn on a sincere personal impulse: “So that we, gentlemen, could take a whip and whip passers-by on the bridge.” (K. Prutkov)
A strong activation of a partner’s Uranus - for example, a creative ecstasy that has gripped him - can be a difficult experience for me, and I can feel the mediocrity of my personality next to him - but also some of its echoes of the partner’s inspiration, which over time and with internal support can help me in a breakthrough to his own creativity - but it will, of course, be completely different from what I see from him. I can really have a much greater influence on the development of his genius, whatever it may be: he will be inspired by my person, but this alone, of course, is not enough.
Unusual and very unbalanced relationships are formed, when partners constantly arouse in each other irrepressible freedom-loving moods, a passion for adventure and unique self-expression. At the same time, they respect each other as individuals, completely rejecting the tendency to dominate and rule.
The “Uranian” personality helps the person of the “First House” achieve their goals and feel more confident intellectually and spiritually, avoiding external dependence. This is achieved thanks to their mutual passion for metaphysics, meditation and yoga, which contribute to personal self-improvement. The “Uranian” personality, as a more socially active one, helps to attract the “First House” personality to engage in the above-mentioned teachings.
The “First House” personality teaches the “Uranian” personality determination, especially when it is necessary to implement intuitively found solutions, developing completely unusual unique projects that require the complete independence of the author.
Partners inspire each other in terms of overcoming routines and traditional worldviews that hinder progressive reforms.
F. Sakoyan L. Ecker. A. Podvodny
TO As a rule, the question of whether we are suitable for each other or not arises when doubts about the partner arise. Or some understatement and misunderstanding of his behavior. They say that there are no ideal people, and we will never find someone 100% suitable for us: as luck would have it, he has either already died or has not yet been born. There is a point: if we love a person, he is always ideal for us.
In the process of building relationships, we may encounter minor problems, the cause of which may be some kind of psychological misunderstanding. Therefore, in order to better understand the person we love, with whom we are friends, work together, or who lives in the next apartment, let’s settle our planets in his Homes. Or his planets into our Homes. And let's see what his planets bring with them to our House.
1 House
Moon - reactions to appearance, manifestation of care, the owner of the 1st House in which the Moon falls will indulge the whims and moods of the owner of the Moon, but with him we will be comfortable and cozy.
Mercury - a person’s thinking and reasoning have a strong influence on the personality, he seems smart, who guesses our thoughts or thinks the same way as we do.
Venus – we really like a person, he is irresistible to us. We can close our eyes to its shortcomings or not see them at all. And forgive small dirty tricks and even major nasty things after an apology. Actually, we are his type too.
Mars - the partner actively influences us, it can aggravate personal problems, its actions can aggravate personal reactions, lead to irritation and conflicts.
Jupiter stimulates us as a person, develops a broad nature. This is a generous, generous partner who, however, can praise us for what we don’t have. Such a partner will claim that we are wonderful, good at this and that, but this will either be too exaggerated or not true at all. Moreover, the partner himself will be confident that he is right and not an ounce of flattery.
Saturn – calls for humility and discipline. A partner teaches us modesty, responsibility and takes responsibility for us. He wants us to do what is right and honest, as He sees fit. We must control ourselves, not allow liberties where he does not consider it necessary to allow them. He limits our development, not allowing us to go beyond the boundaries of decency that he himself established.
Uranus - the partner will be seen by us as an original and a genius. Next to him, sometimes we will feel ordinary. He is capable of turning our world upside down with unexpected ideas and sudden impulses. Change is always around the corner.
Neptune - it is not clear to us what kind of mystery personality visited our House. The partner will catch up with the foggy one, mislead, deceive and hold back. It will lead to confusion and stimulate withdrawal into the world of illusions and conjectures. But under a favorable combination of circumstances, he can endow us with high spiritual qualities and subtle feelings.
Pluto - makes us feel a hidden threat; in family relationships - pressure, the desire of a partner to subordinate us to his unquestioning will. We will see our partner as a significant and strong person with a Nordic character.
2 House
The moon will create comfort and coziness, surround you with care, give serenity, warmth, tranquility to a person, but at the same time, he will consume our resources - material and energy, i.e. the owner of the 2nd House will also need to take care, incl. material and fulfill the whims of the owner of the Moon.
Mercury - as a rule, inclines more towards business partnerships and generates thoughts on financial topics, will help solve everyday problems, it will be important for him to discuss with us serious issues related to our well-being and give us ideas aimed at improving it.
Venus - it will be extremely pleasant to spend time with your partner, there will be no omissions or conflicts with him, it’s easy and comfortable with him, you’ll want to shower him with gifts just to give him a compliment. You can lose a significant amount of resources on this, but it will probably be worth it. Synastry Venus in the 2nd House can change our view of our value system and bring good luck. In general, with such a partner, life will be comfortable and stress-free.
Mars - partner can provide us with financial support, but can make sharp critical comments regarding our value system and conflict on material topics.
Jupiter will help us become more generous mentally and financially, it will set us up for a favorable outcome of things, make it clear that we can achieve anything and become successful. It will give us a feeling of importance, elevate us and make us more noble. We can always count on his support.
Saturn, the partner, will point out our shortcomings and harshly criticize our value system and our ethical guidelines. He will call us to financial responsibility, force us to be frugal, try to limit our spending, call us to conscience and rethink our life attitudes. It will significantly limit our finances.
Uranus - entails pitfalls, surprises and drastic changes in terms of resources, incl. material. But, thanks to its ingenuity, Uranus can suddenly give us a cool and extraordinary idea for achieving financial well-being.
Neptune - possible dishonesty on the part of the partner, deception, concealment of expenses, concealment of income, can lead into temptation and lead to unnecessary expenses, the irrationality of which we realize after they have been committed.
Pluto can transform our system of values and ethical aspects of life, force us to reconsider and radically change our attitude towards the financial side of life.
3 House
The Moon in the 3rd House - for the Moon this is the House of joy, the 3rd House is the house of conversations, short trips. A partner whose Moon falls in our 3rd House will be a good interlocutor for us who will show understanding and empathy. It will be easy and simple with him, you can have intimate conversations. He will always keep you company.
Mercury - a partner whose Mercury falls into our 3rd House will be extremely talkative, but the conversations will be mainly on social topics. This will have nothing to do with romance. A good conversationalist who will understand us perfectly.
Venus is a pleasant and delicate interlocutor, a good partner for going to a museum or theater. If Venus falls into the 3rd House, then the owner of Venus may seem very elegant, noticeable, standing out to us in society among other people.
Mars – if the partner’s Mars is in our 3rd House – then this Mars, or more precisely, this person is called upon to teach us something. For example, a broader understanding of the surrounding reality. What does it mean? Sometimes we are talking to someone, and our interlocutor turns what we said upside down. Those. understands us not even approximately as well as he should. Why? Because our understanding is somewhat limited, and we do not know how to look at things more broadly. The owner of Mars, who will place his Mars in our 3rd House, is precisely sent to us for a deeper and broader understanding and feeling. On the other hand, it will cause aggression in us. It will be interesting to argue with him.
Jupiter – partner Jupiter entering our 3rd House is a good aspect. This person cannot be ignored by us. He is cordial, eloquent, knows a lot, and is interesting to listen to. He may well become an authority for us, whose advice we will listen to.
Saturn – finding a partner Saturn in our 3rd House is a difficult aspect. The partner will lecture, lecture and find fault with words. Will call for discipline. Sometimes, his teachings will actually be beneficial for our growth. But, as a rule, the owners of the 3rd House do not listen to their partner’s Saturn, they make fun of them, which can result in misunderstanding and a conflict like a “cold” war. With such a partner it is better to remain silent.
Uranus - the partner will bring notes of originality and even eccentricity into communication. He will always tell you something unusual and interesting.
Neptune will bring disagreements and mutual misunderstandings. A partner can distort our words and actions. And we will influence the owner of Neptune in a stupefying way. Those. in our presence he will be scattered, uncollected.
Pluto – in the presence of the owner of Pluto, we will feel some anxiety. It will intensify the feeling of being in danger. Perhaps he will say things that traumatize us. He is characterized by jealousy and the desire to protect us from society.
4 House
Moon – finding the synastric Moon in the 4th House brings peace and satisfaction. But, at the same time, it may involve the infliction of severe mental wounds. The owner of the Moon will be pleased to come to visit us, and we will be no less pleased to receive him and surround him with care. The person will feel at home.
Mercury - with the owner of Mercury you will want to communicate on personal topics, but not related to friends or girlfriends, but related to family - stories about great-grandfathers and great-grandmothers, for example, are suitable. This will be communication on “home” topics: about family, roots, improvement, etc.
Venus - the owner of Venus - the person who decorates the house. This is a favorable aspect for married couples, which will help eliminate contradictions and fill communication with love. This is the ideal housewife or person with whom you want to live under the same roof.
Mars - the owner of synastyrical Mars will be active, sometimes assertive and even rude, it can hurt us, but this is only in the opinion of the owner of the 4th House. But still, the owner of Mars can understand what actions of his cause a painful reaction in the owner of the 4th House and correct his behavior.
Jupiter - synastric Jupiter in the 4th House is a welcome generous guest. The man who brings the holiday. This is a positive aspect that promotes success for both parties.
Saturn – synastric Saturn in the 4th House promises difficult relationships. He will teach him about life, which will cause irritation and a desire to send him away. May be associated with the father. Responsible in household affairs.
Uranus – the presence of synastric Uranus in the 4th House is unfavorable for marriage. The aspect undermines the internal self-esteem of the owner of the 4th House and his self-confidence.
Neptune - a partner can cause unclear fears and suspicions.
Pluto will bring a feeling of threat; in its presence we will feel uncomfortable, out of place.
5 House
The Moon is a partner - a person who will take care and patronize.
Mercury is a partner-friend who will entertain with intellectual games. Fun and casual conversations.
Venus is a harmonious aspect that will inspire the owner of the 4th House. It promises a romantic relationship; with such a partner we will feel attractive, and he will seem to us the best.
Mars is a source of energy, an activator. It will provoke actions, incl. intimately and creatively. Can bring conflicts and aggression. He can represent either a hero-lover, a tyrant or a savior. This is an aspect of decisiveness, surprise, initiative.
Jupiter is an aspect that will develop creativity in us, promote growth, bring us into the light, and contribute to fame to some extent. In marriage, there are favorable romantic relationships; the aspect also means educational or pedagogical relationships. Relationships are characterized by strength.
Saturn - suggests strong affection on the part of the owner of Saturn, coldness, lack of passion in relationships, limitations. Romantic compatibility between people is hardly possible.
Uranus – unexpected physical and romantic attraction, similar to magical attraction. Relationships are not always strong and lasting. When Uranus is negative, relationships may appear immoral. Adventurous projects. Friendships based on common interests.
Neptune - promises material waste, connivance, deception - with negative aspects of Neptune. The owner of Neptune will be idealized by us. With harmonious aspects, Neptune helps solve practical issues for the owner of the 5th House, thanks to his intuitive abilities.
Pluto – romantic feelings and physical compatibility. The owner of Pluto will change the view of the owner of the 5th House on life as a source of joys and pleasures.
6 House
The Moon is a relationship that is more professional than personal. The owner of the Moon brings comfort to the home or improves living conditions in every possible way. Excessive attempts to improve health and improve life can begin to irritate the owner of the 6th House. The Moon in the 6th House can even become a burden in everyday life. The Moon in the 6th House entails service either to each other, or someone will serve alone. More precisely, to serve: to completely take on family responsibilities and responsibility for the family.
Mercury – relationships based on professional activities and a healthy lifestyle. Mercury directs the owner of the 6th House to more effective activities and health care. Mercury helps solve current everyday difficulties. The aspect is good for doing business together. Mercury will give valuable advice on the topic of fulfilling duties.
Venus – gives friendships and good relationships related to work activities. Venus will bring harmony and aesthetics into the life of the owner of the 6th House; Venus will gladly fulfill his requests.
Mars – gives activity in business and professional spheres. Mars will always strive to achieve high results. But excessive activity of Mars can also cause conflicts in a couple. The owner of Mars will interfere in all the affairs of the owner of the 6th House, will diligently strive to help and take everything into his own hands, to manage.
Jupiter - develops mutual sensual and spiritual connection. Partners infect each other with enthusiasm and energy of activity. The owner of Jupiter is a good helper for us, he opens up new opportunities and allows us to reach a new level of work or life.
Saturn - gives constructive and creative relationships, Saturn will help you maintain discipline, become organized, help you grow professionally, both individuals will help each other and respect each other. With a negative Saturn, the owner of Saturn can put pressure on the owner of the 6th House and limit his actions, guide him on the right path and will prove that he needs to work conscientiously, meaningfully, without being distracted by anything and with all seriousness.
Uranus - will strive to present a fresh and, in his opinion, original and most necessary idea at the moment. It will interfere. But he will develop an interest in the occult, innovations in the field of health, and nutrition. This aspect can lead to sudden health problems (injuries, nervous disorders).
Neptune is an inattentive, absent-minded, frivolous person. Misunderstandings, confusion, mistakes in work, deception. Connivance in bad habits and fraud. With a positive Neptune - spiritual growth, a healthy lifestyle.
Pluto is mutual responsibility, special attention is paid to a healthy lifestyle, Pluto will try to improve the living conditions and working conditions of the owner of the 6th House, but in some places he may be overly demanding, relationships may have a tinge of forced.
7 House
The Moon is a romantic, family relationship. This will be especially noticeable if the Moon coincides directly with the Dsc of the owner of the 7th House. This aspect is favorable in the field of family business. The aspect also speaks of emotional and personal understanding and of treating your partner as a soul mate.
Mercury - relationships are based on discussion and exchange of information between partners, joint resolution of common issues, people complement each other intellectually.
Venus – it is pleasant to interact with a partner. The aspect gives a mutual desire for harmony, a romantic manifestation of feelings.
Mars – energy and dynamism in relationships. Conflict relationships, clashes and disagreements. Romantic relationships based on physical attraction may also arise, which do not promise a stable relationship. Most likely a rupture. The aspect implies competition: the partner is an eternal rival.
Jupiter - relationships are based on mutual assistance and responsibility, honesty and decency. Harmony and mutual understanding. Usually, these relationships have a serious foundation, their own financial base.
Saturn is the partner-leader. The relationship is loyal and serious. A strong marital union is possible. The aspect speaks of mutual responsibility and support for each other.
Uranus – mutual respect between the parties for personal freedom, common friends and comrades. Unusual interests, unusual marriage, lack of boredom and routine in relationships. With negative Uranus, a breakdown in relationships is possible, stability is impossible.
Neptune - interaction on a subconscious level. Sympathy, love. With a negative Neptune - deception, unreliability, irresponsibility. The aspect is unfavorable for professional activities, because Neptune has a disorienting effect.
Pluto - gives jealousy, a sense of ownership in relationships, attempts to remake the partner for oneself. At times, your partner will seem heavy and even cruel. With a positive Pluto, partners in a couple improve themselves.
8 House
Moon – provides emotional support and the formation of the foundation for future relationships. There is a strong, inexplicable emotional attraction between partners. Mutual interest in occult teachings and psychology.
Mercury - stimulating the study of something, in particular occult teachings. Partners develop spiritually and intellectually. It seems that people with this aspect can read each other's thoughts.
Venus - fatal love, strong physical attraction, strong intuitive connection, and with a negative Venus or afflicted 8th House - hatred, possessiveness and jealousy.
Mars - dynamic relationships in business and scientific and intellectual activity. Passion, energetic and sexual attraction. With a negative Mars, scandals, quarrels, and scenes of jealousy are possible.
Jupiter - joint spiritual and religious life, common interest in the occult, in issues of reincarnation. With a negative Jupiter - deception, self-interest, scams.
Saturn – creative and constructive relationships based on mutual responsibility. The aspect does not have any sexual connotation. In the first place are mercantile and financial issues. With a negative Saturn and defeat of the 8th House, quarrels and breakdowns in relationships are possible.
Uranus – a strong mutual passion for scientific research, the occult, issues of reincarnation, yoga. Arguments, disagreements and assault are possible with negative Uranus.
Neptune – general interest in religion, occultism, spiritual growth. The owner of Neptune is often idealized. With a negative Neptune - evasiveness, dishonesty in relationships.
Pluto – deep penetration into spiritual and mystical realms. It is possible to study parapsychology. Strong energy attraction between partners. With a negative Pluto - fears, worries, emotional decline.
9 House
Moon – relationships are based on family traditions. Relationships will be influenced by factors of education, upbringing and worldview. Partners will be united by joint travel and increasing the level of development.
Mercury – relationships are based on scientific-intellectual and spiritual-philosophical research. With negative Mercury, disagreements may arise on ideological topics.
Venus - relationships are based on increasing the intellectual level, passion for religion, philosophy. The owner of the 9th House helps the owner of Venus broaden his horizons, and the owner of Venus helps to more specifically and clearly define the goals of the couple.
Mars – gives joint trips, business trips; with negative Mars, conflicts are possible: people do not understand each other. The owner of Mars considers the owner of the 9th House to be too dreamy, and the owner of the 9th House believes that the owner of Mars is slow-witted.
Jupiter – general interest in religion, occultism, meditation. The aspect promotes joint travel on an intellectual and cognitive level.
Saturn - Saturn will give accusations of impracticality and having your head in the clouds, and will give some restrictions in trying to further develop, in traveling and broadening your horizons.
Uranus - relationships are built on the exploration of something extraordinary in the field of religion and philosophy. These are excellent friends and companions. It is possible to change the place of residence or stay for educational purposes. The owner of Uranus can dramatically change his views on the life of the owner of the 9th House.
Neptune - teaches you to be more intuitive, influences the religious views of the person of the 9th House, opens your eyes to more subtle aspects of religion and worldview that were previously not noticed. A person of the 9th House is ready to listen to the opinion of the owner of Neptune in matters of religion and worldview.
Pluto – the desire for self-improvement, traveling for educational purposes. Actively engaged in business and professional activities. Transformation of consciousness, growth of energy potential.
10 House
Moon - the owner of the Moon will provide comfort in relationships. The aspect is favorable for business relationships, for family businesses.
Mercury - the owner of the 10th House will raise the prestige of the owner of Mercury, the same will have a significant impact on the owner of the 10th House, and will give ideas for further professional development.
This is a promising, but very difficult aspect for establishing sincere relationships. Neptune distorts reality between us, but it does it differently for me and for my partner, and a lot depends on the natal aspects of Neptune in his chart and, accordingly, the natal aspects of my first house. For example, the defeat of my first house may mean that I will almost always react negatively: I will constantly understand it in the worst possible sense, or even worse.
All my attempts to sincerely explain my position or condition will either lead him into ecstasy (with harmonious Neptune) or plunge him into complete bewilderment, but in any case, in order to learn to correctly perceive my personal manifestations, he needs to learn this for a long time; and the question whether I am sincere or not will often be the real stumbling block for him.
This aspect, especially if Neptune and my first house are not strongly affected, gives the temptation to sail according to the will of fate, not building relationships, but rejoicing in their bright moments, of which there may be many at first, and blurring the contradictions that arise, especially since an honest clarification of them may turn out to be very difficult. This path, however, leads to the fact that the partners get bogged down in impenetrable mutual lies, which are increasingly obvious (at least to me), and the joyful and blissful moments of joint meditations gradually fade away, and the meditations themselves become more and more rough. In general, this black-teacher aspect is at a low level: both have a constant temptation to lead their partner into deception, and he misleads me superficially, and I mislead him very deeply.
A strong psycho-emotional connection is established between individuals, forming their future relationships. The intuitive possibilities of foresight that arise at the level of the subconscious of the “Neptunian” personality have a constructive or destructive influence on the possibilities of self-expression of the person of the “First House”.
With positivity Neptune, the “Neptunian” personality significantly increases the level of spiritual and emotional perception of the “First House” personality, allowing it not only to improve, but also to express itself constructively, and this, in turn, stimulates the “Neptunian” personality to reveal its intuitive abilities even more positively and actively , aesthetic and creative abilities.
When Neptune is defeated, the “Neptunian” personality has a negative impact on the psycho-emotional state of the “First House” personality, condoning her bad habits and inclinations, while she literally begins to drown in empty and useless fantasies of an unreal, made-up world.
If the partners are closer, being in family and household relationships, then all of the above effects become even more pronounced.
F. Sakoyan L. Ecker. A. Podvodny
