An investment in your husband is an investment in yourself.
– Isn’t it better to invest strength in yourself than to make your husband a millionaire?
– My book “Make Your Husband a Millionaire” is not about how to help a man realize himself, but how to find your talent yourself, create the life you want, to be free, independent, successful. It is easier for a man to earn money, he is determined to do this and is energetically created that way. A woman can also earn money, but at the same time she has the opportunity to save some reserve for herself. We help a man because we have a relationship, which means we need to invest in it, support and inspire our partner. Women often say: “I’ll make him a millionaire, and he’ll go to a younger woman.” Yes, this can happen, but you will be left with a large dowry. A book about how to develop your intellect, emotional support, sexual energy and material side.
– How then to keep your millionaire husband?
- There is no need to hold him. When we begin to cling to something, we destroy ourselves. If a woman knows how to “make” a man successful, she can choose – love or money. Many of my students are older than their husbands. They say that the knowledge they have allows them to choose a man, love, and not money. It took me fifteen years for my first husband to become a millionaire, and I understand: if I get married a second time, it will now be much faster.
Get ready for... betrayal
– They look at you as a woman who knows how to manage feminine energy to achieve success. But how did divorce happen in your family?
– Sometimes relationships exhaust themselves. When love passes, ideological differences appear. We always choose: to artificially maintain this relationship or allow him and ourselves to be happy. At some point, I stopped feeling happy with my husband. And when a woman is unhappy, everyone is unhappy - husband, children, employees. At that moment it was necessary to decide on a bold step and give freedom to yourself and him. Now I see that he is happy with his new wife. I’m happy too, because I’m also surrounded by love and attention. Indeed, at the age of 50, everything is just beginning for a woman - the children have grown up, there is time to travel, develop, and fall in love.
– How to deal with betrayal?
– You need to understand the reason for the betrayal and deal with yourself. Do not ruin the relationship, but internally realize and choose. If there is love, you need to fight for it. If not, you need to make another decision. Our grandmothers raised us in fear of adultery, but I think we need to talk about the fact that there is a minimum percentage of devoted men, you need to be prepared for betrayal and understand whether you want to fight for your soul mate and your family. The husband of one of my students cheated on her for seven years. When she found out about his parallel relationship, she came to her rival and said: “Thank you for pleasing my husband for seven years, but now I will choose.” She did not start a scandal; her calmness, inner strength and desire to fight for her family helped her get rid of her mistress and return her husband. Any crisis cannot be left to chance - it cannot be done without specialists; the woman herself cannot cope, because for her it is a severe trauma.
Once again about bigamy
– In Russia, the issue of legalizing bigamy is increasingly being raised; in Kazakhstan, this topic is also one of the top ones. What is your position on this matter?
– When men leave for younger people, have second wives, this has a destructive effect on a woman who has helped him build a career all her life, raised children, kept the family hearth... Indeed, at some point a woman finds herself not only without a husband, but also without money . But thanks to the fact that we support femininity and personal development, we have a chance to start over without fear and at 50, as before, remain attractive, sexy, and successful. Think of crises as when you were 20: “one man left, another came” (laughs). Unlike Western men with a Protestant, Catholic culture, ours have a “harem philosophy.” But our women don’t have this! Arab and Turkish women were brought up in a harem culture, and the presence of a first or second wife does not destroy them. Most of our women find it difficult to accept second wives. It turns out that he is free in his choice and desires, but you are not. You remain faithful, and sometimes it is not clear to whom or what, because often men do not have sexual relations with their first wives. She gives up on herself for the sake of formally maintaining status and money. But there are many free men in the world! When a woman comes to terms with the presence of a rival, her body is destroyed, this has been proven by medicine. It all ends with uterine cancer, breast cancer, fibroids and other diseases. There is always a choice: to die in this relationship or to live without it.
Husbands change, but mothers-in-law remain
– You have visited our country several times. What is the difference between women in Kazakhstan and Russia?
– I really like the strong ancestral roots, respect and worship of elders, and the powerful energy of the past in Kazakh women. At the same time, some traditions, for example, when an older child is given to be raised by grandparents or to the families of childless relatives, sometimes have a different effect. Compared to Russian women, Kazakh women are more material and know how to create comfort. Your women have a lot of wealth energy. In Kazakhstan, women's traditions are strong, when a mother passes on knowledge, wisdom, and silver jewelry to her daughter, for example, a kusmuryn ring - a bird's beak. It symbolizes the ring of fate and is placed on the daughter’s index finger. If a girl wears a ring with its beak up, this means that she is ready to meet her chosen one. When she gets married, her beak is down. We were given such rings in Astana!
– In the battle between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, whose side is more truthful?
“You must say thank you to your mother-in-law for raising and raising your husband.” And if you live on its territory, you cannot establish your own rules. I noticed that the mother-in-law’s struggle for her son always begins due to attention deficit. If the daughter-in-law brings gifts, calls, finds out how she is feeling, tells her husband so that he does not forget to do this, then everything works out harmoniously. I remember at the beginning of my marriage, my mother-in-law came to us and rearranged things. I agreed with everything, but as soon as she crossed the threshold, she returned everything to its place. I divorced my husband five years ago, but I’m still friends with my mother-in-law. And now that both my sons have grown up, I am friends with their former and current girlfriends. I realized that husbands change, but mothers-in-law remain. (Laughs.)
Not so long ago, all kinds of psychological practices began to gain popularity in the world. Messiahs from psychology teach people how to change themselves, their lives and even the surrounding reality with the power of thought, without effort. One of the famous psychologists, authors of books and leading trainings is Larisa Renard. Her books sell in huge quantities, and people line up for tickets to seminars.
Childhood and youth
Larisa Vladislavovna Bogdanova (creative pseudonym Larisa Renard) was born in the largest city of Central and Eastern Siberia, Krasnoyarsk, on December 9, 1966. The girl inherited her passion for science from her father: Vladislav Andreevich has an academic degree. And Larisa’s mother holds the position of director at the Krasnoyarsk railway.
Nothing is known about Larisa’s childhood. After graduating from the Krasnoyarsk secondary school, the girl entered the biological faculty of the university in St. Petersburg. During this period, Larisa played in the student theater and was fond of mountaineering. However, during her studies, Bogdanova became disillusioned with her chosen specialty and a year after graduation she entered the same university to study as a psychologist.
Realizing her destiny as a psychologist, Bogdanova continued her studies in psychoanalysis courses at the Harmony Institute of Psychotherapy and Counseling in 1993. However, in Russia in the 90s, with an unstable political situation, the popularity of psychologists was at a low level, and it was simply impossible to make a living as a school psychologist. So Larisa was faced with the need to study the art of self-presentation.
The world of developed capitalism could provide Bogdanova with more knowledge and skills in terms of management than Russia, so the girl went to study in Boston, USA. There Larisa took courses in the theory and practice of advertising in 1994, and five years later she studied the Early Childhood Development course in Philadelphia.
Returning to St. Petersburg, Larisa continued advanced training at the Stockholm School of Economics, where she received a Master of Business Administration (middle and senior manager). In 2005, the girl studied the basics of neurolinguistic programming in the courses of Viktor Savelyev. Throughout this period, Bogdanova continued to study psychology and in 2006 defended her PhD thesis in the field of the fundamentals of psychocorrection.
But the girl did not plan to stop there either: in 2008, Bogdanova attended a team coaching training by the founder and president of Erickson International University, Marilyn Atkinson, and participated in a ten-day intensive course held in India at Unity University. The girl attended more than five more trainings in 2009. The courses taken dealt with running a business and influencing the consciousness and subconscious of people using psychological methods.
Literature and Psychology
Over time, having gained experience, Larisa Renard became a successful coach, as well as the author of several bestsellers. Bogdanova’s target audience is represented mainly by women from 20 to 40 years old.
Larisa has conducted more than 250 trainings both in Russia and abroad, including Spain, America and India. In 2015, Renard became a frequent guest on television - the woman appeared on television shows, gave interviews, and acted as an expert and consultant. In the early 2000s, Larisa developed her own educational program for children called “Lilyanysh”, and soon a series of books of the same name were published. The book's circulation was half a million.
In 2013, the psychologist organized the All-Russian project “Talent Development” for gifted children and adolescents. As part of the project, Larisa conducted a number of charity events and master classes for orphans.
Another developmental project for teenagers from Larisa Renard was “School for Girls”. The participants, under the strict guidance of a mentor, explored their inner world and looked for their place in the world and purpose. In addition to teenage girls, school teachers and psychologists also studied under Bogdanova’s original program.
But the main event in Larisa Renard’s career was the creation of her own psychological studio, “Academy of Private Life.” Larisa calls the main goal of the center’s work to reveal the feminine energy inherent in every woman by nature. According to information posted on the official website of the organization, more than half of the women who became acquainted with Renard’s practices from her books and were convinced that they work come to the trainings of the Academy of Private Life. Larisa Vladislavovna’s work is focused on the relationship between a woman and a man, teaching a woman to manipulate a man, to receive emotions and material benefits from him.
The most popular technique used by psychologists is the so-called “funnel”. The practice is that a woman raises her hands to the sky to connect with the energy of the Universe, and then spins for 3-5 minutes in one place around her axis, spinning the energy into a funnel.
Since 2015, Larisa has become a permanent TV presenter of the “You Are Suitable for Us” program together with and.
Personal life
As if to confirm the theories and books, Larisa met love in her youth, got married as a student and never parted with her husband again. In marriage, the woman gave birth to two sons.
Renard prefers to leave the details of his personal life secret, so how successful she is can only be judged by Larisa’s books.
Larisa Renard now
The success of Larisa Renard and the Academy of Private Life is growing. More and more women are attending Renard’s author’s trainings and purchasing her books. 2017 turned out to be a productive year for the psychologist: the woman published ten books, including “Mandalas,” designed to bring women success in various areas of life. Some of them are based on the lunar calendar: coloring psychedelic patterns, according to the author, affects a woman’s life differently depending on the day of the lunar cycle.
Revealing the secrets of female power in the books, the author claims that by mastering these techniques, any woman has the opportunity to achieve her goal: from seducing a man to making a dream come true. Larisa calls liberation from connections and old partners that deprive a woman of strength and energy as a necessary condition for achieving success.
The biography of Larisa Renard has so many achievements and certificates of education in the field of business and administration that in 2017 a woman became the President of the Russian Federation. Larisa’s election program is called “The Right to Happiness,” in which the psychologist guarantees voters to make each and every citizen of the country happy.
Bibliography
- 2003 – “Lilyanysh”
- 2006 – “Circle of Female Power”
- 2010 – “Elixir of Love”
- 2012 - “Lunar Mysteries!”
- 2013 – “Night of Time”
- 2017 – “Make your husband a millionaire”
- 2017 – “Mandala of feminine power”
- 2017 – “Discovering a new you”
- 2017 – “Discovering a new self. Your path to happiness, power and love"
8 years older than her. He completely shares his wife’s view of life: intimate, everyday, spiritual. This marriage has lasted for more than twenty years, the couple has two sons and considers their lifestyle exemplary. Larisa's husband Renard, like her, passionately loves active sports, testing his strength, conversations on philosophical topics, extreme sports and adventures. Apparently, he is successful and makes good money. Unfortunately, it was not possible to find more detailed information about him. No matter how much the writer insists that she is not hiding anything from the public, she still tries to protect her loved ones from the attention of the press.
As for Larisa herself, her real name is Bogdanova. She was born in Krasnoyarsk. After graduating from school, she moved to St. Petersburg, where she first graduated from the biological faculty of the Institute. Lomonosov, and then realized her dream and received an education as a psychologist. Throughout her childhood and youth, the future writer played in plays, hosted various events and enjoyed being creative. If she wanted, she could talk about the many adventures she got into with her friends.
Today her books sell in crazy numbers both in Russia and abroad. Trainings and seminars are extremely popular. A few years ago, Larisa Renard opened an entire Academy dedicated to personal life and male-female relationships. She is convinced that with her help Russia will become happier and richer not only spiritually, but also physically.
If you believe the writer’s books, then in her arsenal there are rituals and recipes of different nations and beliefs, some passed down from her great-grandmother, some from friends and strangers. The basis of all her trainings is psychology.
By his example, Renard is trying to prove that in modern Russia, a woman can be an exemplary and loving wife, without infringing on her talents and desires.
Where did you get such an unusual surname - Renard?
This is a creative pseudonym. My real last name is absolutely wonderful - Bogdanova, given by God.
Your books are based on the story of your great-grandmother, who lived in St. Petersburg at the beginning of the last century - is this literary fiction?
There was some fiction, but 90% of it is true.
So did you actually find her diary?
It was not a diary in its pure form - rather, some personal notes mixed with dates and recipes. To this began to be added the advice that other women received at one time from their mothers.
It seems to me that today girls in the family, at best, are taught to sew and cook. But there is practically no one to teach how to be a woman and how to build relationships with men correctly.
After the revolution, women who had lost their husbands were forced to display masculine patterns of behavior, and they passed on their experience to their daughters. The same thing happened in the late forties - our mothers, growing up, copied the “masculine” behavior of women left without men. This is why Western men today bring wives from Asia. The suffragettes won in social life, but lost in personal life, abandoning their nature of femininity.
Do you suggest that a woman return to the “Kinder-Kirche-Küchen” model?
No, I'm talking about something else. When a woman is energetically filled, she is ready to let go of control and transfer responsibility to a man. It is important for us at the Academy to show that a woman can be successful in her business, but at the same time remain gentle, giving responsibility to a man.
But aren’t working women who come home tired inferior to housewives who meet their husbands filled with the energy of joy and tranquility?
As a working woman, I am sure that when you do what you love (and this is our choice of what to do), you also come home filled with the energy of joy. And a man often needs very little to feel our love. Ask him: “How does my attention show itself to you?” We think that a man will dictate a list of 20 points, but it turns out there are a maximum of three. For some, communication is important, for others, a home-cooked breakfast, for others, touch and hugs. And when we begin to understand this, everything changes without any global restructuring or refusal to work. We give a man a vision and a goal, and a man returns material things to us. Understanding this, we stop demanding from him what is more difficult to give him.
For example?
The same love. Initially, a woman fills a man with love, and then the man returns it to us. If I am devastated, if I have nothing to give, then nothing happens to the man. When I do what I love, when I enjoy it, without sparing myself time, effort and money, then the world begins to return to me - both love and money. We are the creators of our reality.
Nowadays there is a popular opinion that women do not want to build relationships with men as equal partners, but simply want to learn how to use men without doing anything. That’s why all these women’s practices are so popular. What do you say to this?
There is the left hemisphere - logic, structure, order. And there is the right - images, emotions. I am for partnership, but even in partnership, one brings structure, the other brings creativity. And if the partners are the same, then there will be no synergy, there will be no development.
How did you come to this? Where did you study?
After school, I went from my native Krasnoyarsk to St. Petersburg to study as a psychologist: I always believed that our consciousness changes the world around us. I like the example of Roosevelt, who created the myth of the great American dream and thereby changed American history.
What was the impetus for the appearance of Larisa Renard?
At some point, my successful husband casually said to me: “Darling, you are already 34, and I am still 42.” There are phrases that change our lives. I began to look for an answer to the question of why, at 34 years old, having been married for a long time and having two children, I feel old and worthless. I realized that for further development I need new knowledge.
What knowledge were you looking for?
How to feel like a happy woman.
Why did you decide to open the Academy of Private Life?
Communicating with women, I realized that I have simple answers to many of their questions - they lie on the surface. I felt sad that so many women cannot find these answers and suffer, building their lives differently. And seven years after the founding of the Academy, I sat down and began writing books - I was so overwhelmed with this knowledge.
You are now releasing your fourth book - about how a woman feels when a marriage collapses... If you have not experienced this, then women will quite reasonably ask why Larisa Renard believes that she knows how to cope with this situation. And if they survived, then it is appropriate to ask how Renard could allow this to happen to her.
My task as a psychologist is to understand what makes a woman successful. And before I started writing this book, I listened to many stories of different women. Personal experience is not always needed for analysis and psychological advice.
Doesn’t it scare you that the reputation of an “academician” of women’s happiness is highly dependent on the well-being of your personal family life?
I don't want to fall into this trap. If at some point I understand that the relationship with a man is over, then I will not stay in it in order to live up to the legend. This is my life. When one of our teachers left her husband after 25 years of marriage, she said: “As a specialist, I can maintain this relationship for another 25 years, but this is emptiness. There is nothing more in them - neither for him nor for me.”
We had a training session with psychology teacher Marilyn Atkinson, who said a brilliant thing: the messenger is not always the message.
Virginia Satir, for example, was a gorgeous family psychologist, although she was never married. A teacher is not always good at what he teaches - what is more important is his ability to convey knowledge.
Isn't it difficult for your husband to live with a woman whose profession is to teach women how to properly build relationships with men, including sexual relationships?
We are given the partner we need. And I am very grateful to my husband - he has always supported me. Most husbands would be afraid to have a wife who is a specialist in sexual practices and erotic massages... But my husband was not afraid. He believes that sex is our freedom. And people who infringe or limit themselves in this way do not allow themselves to live life fully.
Did teaching sexual practices immediately become part of the course at the Academy?
Yes, because sexual energy is the main source of energy in general.
In your books, you are the prototype of the main character, and you describe yourself with a certain amount of narcissism. Are you doing this deliberately to show how confident you are?
This story is not about me, but about the woman who reads my book. And in order for her to change the world around her, she needs to learn to change her perception of herself. If we consider ourselves ugly, then the universe will always confirm: yes, ugly. And when you say (even if it’s not true): “I’m happy,” then the universe begins to give you evidence.
What is your goal in your work?
Make Russia a country of happy women. It is necessary to revive the lost, as it seems to me, sense of one’s worth as a woman. American women consider themselves queens, but we always put ourselves down. And I believe that there are no more women in the world who have so much intelligence, beauty and strength.
Many women in Russia are single or divorced and therefore forced to develop masculine energies in themselves in order to support themselves and their families. What should they do?
In a woman to whom everything comes easily, who attracts everything to herself and creates happy relationships, the ratio of female to male energy is 75% to 25%. This 25% is enough to be successful in your career. But many women have the opposite ratio: 75% male energy and 25% female energy. They attract weak, effeminate men, forcing them to strengthen this masculine energy. But as soon as they change this ratio, their lives change.
But the statistics are inexorable - there are objectively fewer men.
Each of us lives in the world that we ourselves created. As soon as we change our energy, men begin to come into our lives who are ready to take care of us and show responsibility. Many women have an internal mindset that men are weak or lacking. And the world around us always confirms this. What we order to the universe comes to us. And then, we do not live in an isolated world - there is Australia, Canada, China, where there are a lot of interesting men. The world is full of possibilities. Not to mention the fact that we need to create a situation in which men will come to Russia to get their wives.
Larisa Renard is a widely known person in narrow circles. Positions himself as a psychologist, biologist, coach, etc.
She created the “Academy of Private Life.” This room on the ground floor of a city high-rise building behind thick doors with bars is the branch of this pseudo-“academy” in Moscow:
The lady deletes all information compromising herself on the Internet, so we can only learn about her from snatches of comments that her main task is to write a commercial selling text that would help squeeze out more money from unfortunate women “thirst for simple female happiness,” and so The fact is that this “psychologist,” if I may say so, has a strong complex about the need to wear glasses, so he prefers contact lenses, after wearing them for many hours, the “psychologist’s” eyes hurt badly. That is, this psychologist cannot even cope with her own complexes, then how she can help others is a mystery.
Renard's main goal in life is to earn more. 
Renard (in fact, this is a pseudonym - the real name of the pseudoscientist Bogdanov, but the pseudonym sounds, of course, more mysterious, and therefore helps to collect more money) actively suffers from graphomania with enviable consistency, churning out books about how “an unhappy lonely woman can successfully get married,” and in fact, telling how to become a kept woman, as well as how to take the man you like away from someone else’s family. In her opuses, the eccentric lady recommends that all single women go to Turkey and give themselves to the first people they meet, and her heroines are nicknamed “Aniska”, “Kisa” and so on.
Someone will say, “What difference does it make what she writes about and whether her eyes hurt from contact lenses - maybe she really helps someone?”
Fine. Here's how she helps. One of her favorite techniques, which she advises everyone to do, is the “Rooster”. You have to wake up at 4 in the morning (neither earlier nor later), stand in some unthinkable position and scream “Crow” at the top of your lungs until you’re blue in the face. With such practices one is not far from a mental hospital.
She teaches this and much more to her followers at the so-called “Academy of Private Life.” To understand what kind of hack work this is, just go to the website of this pseudo-“academy” and see how it sells online miracle bracelets and candles with matches, by lighting which you can attract money to yourself, and the website of this false “academy” itself " is more reminiscent of an online store with a basket hanging in the upper right corner of the site and an indication of the number of orders placed.
The eccentric lady immediately urges you to urgently go to an online marathon, where a trip to Turkey will be played out. Considering what exactly she proposes to do for women in Turkey, all this resembles some kind of recruitment and channel for supplying women with “reduced social responsibility” to the country of the Janissaries. Apparently Larisa is haunted by the laurels of Alex Leslie and Nastya Rybka, who have already worked their way up to an international scandal. 
Another pseudo-psychologist Renard self-proclaimed herself the founder and head of the social movement for consolidating the creative and intellectual forces of the Pleiades society. What does this organization do? Manages the VKontakte page with posts like “Bees in the service of good!” and tells how humanity will move to the level of space civilization. Right next door, in order not to miss financial clients and not lose money, the community advertises courses in “beautiful and creative blogging.”
The charlatan earns quite well: 9500-17000 for a two-day master class from each adherent. How professional are these master classes? Judge for yourself: her “academy” has a master class on teaching public speaking for which, as expected, she charges a lot of money. Now look at how Larisa Renard herself appears on TV: with an eerie speech, with a provincial brushing her bangs from her face. , writes that she is from Krasnoyarsk, but then moved to Leningrad. I have been to Krasnoyarsk many times, but even there I have hardly heard such talk. Somewhere in the Krasnoyarsk outback it is possible, but in the city practically not. But okay, it happens. But she has been living in St. Petersburg for 30 years, and she works publicly as a so-called “coach,” giving lectures and promoting gullible housewives, divorcees and single mothers to make money, promising them new relationships. Really, after 30 years (!) of active work, she couldn’t simply attend courses on staging stage speech and eliminating the dialect in it? A few months of articulation classes would be enough to get rid of this legacy of the collective farm past! But no. It’s easier, apparently, to remain yourself, brushing your bangs off your head in front of millions of spectators, like a flirtatious milkmaid at a rural disco.
By the way, an interesting point. This is who is called as “experts” on our duping television, no worse than Larisa.
The moment where she tells the people about Stalin(!):
Of course, like all similar types focused on earning cash, Renard constantly tours from channel to channel, performing periodically with another graphomaniac Daria Dontsova and draws rave reviews about himself on the Internet. And viewers, having seen this “star” in the sky of domestic television that has fallen below the plinth, run to spend their money on advertised trainings and a mountain of books published by a psycho-biologist, with which all bookstore shelves are littered, like garbage in a city dump.
So, if you feel “bored and lonely,” run quickly to the training, where you can be guaranteed only one miracle that will definitely happen to you: they will take all your money, no matter how much you have in your wallet. Considering that, according to Renard, she actively uses NLP in her practice, we can safely speak of a massive duping of the population.
