The soul of a person after death. The secret of the soul and its transformations

Our everyday speech sometimes contains such deep secrets that we usually do not even suspect. What do we mean when we say - the soul hurts? Or - the soul went to the heels? Or when we say about someone that he has tremendous fortitude? And what do we mean by repeating the well-known saying: a healthy mind in a healthy body?

What is the body, we always understand. Well, what is the soul and spirit? Some may say that this symbolically refers to mood or health.

Well, maybe, here we are talking about certain constituent parts of a person? What does modern science say about this?

One of the largest specialists in the field of medicine and physiology, the famous surgeon V.F. Voyno-Yasenetsky (1877–1961), the now illustrious Saint Luke, believed that the soul and spirit are as inherent in man as the body.

This outstanding scientist, who later became an archbishop, even earlier managed to so convincingly prove the existence of the non-material world to the chairman of the Cheka, Peters, that he had nothing to object to this.

It happened during the trial in the 1920s of innocently slandered doctors in Tashkent. All of them faced capital punishment. The trial was supposed to be a demonstrative reprisal against the "counter-revolutionaries".

Professor Voyno-Yasenetsky was called as a witness, but due to his courage he could also become a victim of the process.

After he professionally explained the falseness of the accusations brought against the doctors, an enraged Peters asked:

- Tell me, priest and professor Yasenetsky-Voino (with the blessing of His Holiness Patriarch Tikhon, Valentin Feliksovich Voyno-Yasenetsky accepted the holy order, but continued to practice surgery), - how do you pray at night, and cut people during the day?

To this the surgeon calmly replied:

- I cut people in the name of their salvation, but in the name of what do you cut people, citizen public prosecutor? The hall met the successful answer with applause.

To attract the sympathy of the workers in the hall, Peters asked the following question:

- How do you believe in God, priest and professor? Have you seen Him, your God?

“I really didn’t see God,” answered Voyno-Yasenetsky, “but I operated on the brain a lot and, opening the skull, I never saw the mind there either. And there was no conscience either.

The chairman's bell was drowned in the long unceasing laughter of the entire hall. The doctors' case failed miserably.

One of the scientific developments of Professor Voyno-Yasenetsky was a study in the field of neurosurgery, the study of brain activity, perception and thinking. The result of these studies was his book Spirit, Soul, Body.

In it, he cites amazing cases of clairvoyance, premonition, thought transmission at a distance, which do not fit into the pseudo-materialistic teaching that has been hammered into the heads of Soviet schoolchildren for 70 years.

What is a soul? According to the conclusion of St. Luke, this is a complex of organic and sensual perceptions, thoughts and feelings, memories, mind, will, united by self-consciousness, which is animated by the spirit. Those elements of the soul that are connected with the life of the spirit are immortal.

Archbishop Luka (Voino-Yasenetsky) was not only a theoretician, but also a practitioner of spiritual life. This man, who saved thousands of lives on the surgical table, did not leave his healing even after death. There are many cases of miraculous healings that took place at his grave in Simferopol. In 2000, Archbishop Luke was canonized by the entire Russian Orthodox Church. His holy relics are now resting in the Cathedral of the city of Simferopol.

The concept of the soul for a person is something abstract, not having an exact representation and description. Someone imagines it in the form of a breeze flying away from the body, someone in the form of smoke, someone simply lives with the clear confidence that every person has it, without thinking about its appearance.

Among the peoples living on the territory of the Komi Republic, the soul was associated with breathing, and it was with its cessation that a person was already considered dead. The soul or, as the locals called it, “loving” was on the ground after death for another 40 days and came to her house, so a clean towel and a bowl of water hung there all this time so that she could wash herself. The underworld was presented in different ways. On the one hand, it was hell and paradise, on the other hand, some place located in close proximity to the earth, which provided a very close connection between the living and the dead. It was believed that the dead constantly monitor the lives of their loved ones and in every possible way protect them from various troubles. And in order to strengthen this protection and to thank for the care of their ancestors, people had to remember them with funeral treats.

In Egypt, the soul was taken as the totality of various substances living in a person:

Ba is the soul of a person or god, which appears only after death. She was depicted as a bird with a human head. She could be directly in the tomb, she could fly away, but she always returned to the body again.

Ka is such a sign by which animate and inanimate objects differ, it was also called the “double” of the soul. A special sarcophagus was placed in the tomb so that Ka could hide there.

Ah - they also called the “spirit” in another way, it was one of the constituent parts of the soul and was depicted in the form of an ibis.

Shu is the shadow of a person, his dark side, hidden from others.

The heart, one of the most important components of the soul, was considered to be also the seat of its consciousness. At the meetings of the afterlife court, it was the heart that could tell about the bad deeds of a deceased person. To avoid this, special spells were cast over the heart during burial.

Sakh is the human body after the mummification procedure. It was the embodiment of a person who had gone through all the necessary sacred rites.

Among the ancient Greeks there was a strong belief that the soul exists, and they represented it in the same way as the person himself. They gave the name "Hades" to the world of the dead and did not feel any fear for it, because, having been there, one could meet dear people. The fate of human souls was different, and it depended on the way of life that their owners led.

The Greeks believed in this and during their lifetime they still took care of their souls, joining various cult activities. Usually, the analysis of one's life was carried out in old age, when a person felt the approach of death and understood the inevitability of punishment for his actions. The well-being of the soul was ensured by participation in various mysteries and through initiation into "mysts". Any person could be admitted to initiation, regardless of gender, but not with a criminal past. People were prepared for the afterlife by telling them about it and performing purification rites. Also, the burial process itself played a big role, which had to take place according to all the rules so that the soul would find its well-being in Hades. Otherwise, she is doomed to torment and wandering. On the grave, on the days of commemoration, the relatives of the deceased person always left bread and wine, and in difficult moments of life they mentally turned to the soul with requests for help.

The most terrible punishment for the Egyptians was not death, but the possibility of refusing to be buried. This applied to people leading a criminal lifestyle; after execution, they could be torn to pieces by wild animals and not buried.

The Slavs had a real cult of ancestors for many centuries, their souls must be in paradise. The dead were "clean" and "unclean", this division occurred depending on how the death of a person occurred. Those who died in a “decent” way bore the name of their parents, hence the name of the parental day appeared, when all deceased relatives are commemorated. The second category included suicides, drowned people, drunkards, whose lives were cut short intentionally or as a result of their obscene lifestyle. They were afraid of them even after death, believing that they could harm living people, so a wooden stake was driven into the corpse so that they could not get up.

The ancient Slavs believed that after death, not only the activity of a person’s soul, but also his body can be preserved. The spirit was understood as refined matter, something weightless and barely noticeable, like a haze. At the same time, the Slavs did not make clear divisions between the spiritual and the material, they explained it as a different state of the same substance.

In Buddhism, the concept of "taking refuge" is common. This means getting some patronage from higher powers, taking on the teacher's karma, and taking on great responsibility. This is something like an additional chance for a person to achieve enlightenment. In reality, this whole ritual looks like this: the lama touches the forehead of the person who has stood in line with his palm and utters a spell that says that from that moment on, every moment of this person’s life is filled with teaching, and he needs to correspond to his position. Anyone can come to the seminars without restrictions, and only those who have completed the training are accepted for practical classes.

Despite the difference in the representation and understanding of the soul among different peoples, they are united by the fact that people sincerely believe in it, understanding its importance in their lives. There are no immortals, at the end of the path the same end awaits everyone, but what the path will be after death depends on the person during life. The most correct thing is to live according to conscience, not to betray oneself and not to commit illegal acts. Life is multifaceted and you need to learn to see the positive aspects in it, protect yourself from negative information as much as possible and surround yourself with the right people.

For many, it still remains a mystery. Indeed, it does not lend itself to research in the physical world. Only indirect signs of the state of the soul help us to recreate its image. Other sources, often not of the earthly level, complement this image with new shades. This is how we accumulate knowledge and comprehend the deep roots of the soul.

In this topic, we will slightly open certain aspects of the soul that are associated with technologies for the development of life. We will talk about these technologies and thus expand our knowledge even more, providing a person with a real picture, which is still largely hidden from his eyes.
We proceed from the fact that the soul is intended to create special properties for a living and intelligent organism. In particular, for a spiritually developing person, it brings properties to the consciousness that help him to engage in Higher Creativity at the stage of life in the casual world. Let us dwell on this aspect of the soul, which has not yet been elucidated earlier.

To engage in creativity in general, we already know this, the energy of the mind is necessary for the ultimate saturation of the associative field and its subsequent development and branching in new energy-informational spectra. However, the composition of the energy of the mind is extremely important in the creative process. What is the initial nutritional composition of this energy, associative constructions will be appropriate. They can be tough and require a lot of effort in the creative process, as a rigid associative basis prevents inductive associative interactions. Associations can also be translucent. Such structures expand the range of inductive associative interaction during the period of reflection and are easily amenable to development in creative searches. This property we call ingenuity - the most valuable quality of consciousness. It does not require increased energy consumption for development and is easy to "operate".
In order to build a consciousness with given properties, an appropriate nutrient medium is needed. It is created by the person himself in the process of eating. And the components of this environment are introduced into the structure of consciousness by the emotional imposition of radiations that are created by the soul. In other words, the soul brings a qualitative component to the spectrum of the mind's energies and contributes to the development of creative consciousness, if its emotional radiations do not go into the lower spectral range. High emotions contribute to the "softening" of the energy of the mind, increase its fluidity and enhance its penetrating ability. Thus, the soul introduces a qualitative component into the associative structure of consciousness. Consequently, tight control over mental impulses reduces this quality indicator. And constant external pressure on the soul, and there are many such examples - in particular, the aggression of modern media, deprives a person of creative potential. Such pressure enslaves the soul, making a person potentially weak, including intellectually. In this regard, when considering the development of modern man, one should also dig into this question: are they not fulfilling today The media is this particular task?...

We will not develop this thesis - it is obvious. Our task is to reveal the mechanisms of spiritual development at the expense of the potential of the soul.
The imposition of the properties of the soul on the structure of consciousness in the process of spiritual development, in fact, is a relay of the body of the soul into the mental spheres of consciousness. This is the main stimulus of the soul in its development and creation of a copy in the mental spheres of consciousness. The same applies to the physical person who builds his shells in the upper spheres, and someone reaches the casual world. Here a spiritual person is born - a symbiosis of soul and consciousness. Only here, in the casual world, the Technologies of growing a spiritual person are being developed. And only here the advantages of the creative development of a person are manifested, when without these abilities he will not be able to realize his plans, although there will be a need for this. And if there is no potential for creativity in him, but he entered the casual world in the process of development, he will not be able to realize the subsequent development here without the creative potential inherent in the physical world from the very beginning. In this sense, all of his development, not only in the physical world, but also subsequent in the Higher spheres up to the casual world, is only preliminary and insufficient for the cognition of the Truth. We also talked about this in various topics. And only in the spheres of the CCR is the accumulation of true knowledge and subsequent training of a person to acquire the properties of a spiritually developed person. This should be remembered.

When the soul aspires to the lower spheres, its subsequent path will inevitably lead to fiery purification. And in case of loss of its vital functions, it will be disposed of, and a new young soul will take its place - a copy of the former one. Let's look at this side of the issue.
Just as a physical person does not have the same fingerprints, so each soul has its own separate properties. Otherwise, in a resonant connection, they will not be able to influence each other. Therefore, each soul is born with an individual resonant microstructure of the body.
Souls are created in special gene resonators, where the initial resonant matrix changes for each new generated soul. Therefore, the number of newborn souls is limited by the width of the total resonant spectrum of their gene matrices. Accordingly, each soul has an individual passport, where all its fundamental features are inscribed. Souls have names, like the name of a physical person. But their names are not disclosed, otherwise it is possible to directly control the soul, which responds to its name. According to the structure of the initial matrix, souls can be close, just like relatives of a person are close. But souls have no family connection, there are only resonant connections. The proximity of souls is considered to be a single development of the initial structure of the gene matrix. Accordingly, for new souls a new kind is created in the physical world, in which souls with similar individual characteristics are embodied.
If the soul could not provide itself with the prospect of development and "drowned" in the wilds of the lower spheres, then a new soul is created according to its individual passport without the danger of its connection with the previous one, because after disposal, nothing remains of the former soul. Its original gene matrix completely annihilates.

There are souls for different purposes. If in our BV the soul is assigned the prospect of entering the casual world, then in the Civilizations of other BV there are their own developments, respectively, and their own forms and purposes of souls. They also grow them for their internal needs, in order to manage in the astral world, because there are no other management tools for this. Therefore, they grow souls in order to master the astral spheres. We have the same in BV. But each Civilization has its own requirements. As for our Civilization (the Civilization of our BV), in its development it is closest to the casual world. Accordingly, it has gone through all the previous stages that other Civilizations are going through, while still mastering the astral worlds. As for the interspheral spaces, their souls, intended for our physical world, resemble earthly spiders in their external form. Therefore, the introduction of these individuals into the original soul of a physical person gives him its own separate properties - we already know this. Now, already after many centuries of interspheral "kneading", these spider-souls, introduced into a person, have made their own changes in the gene structure of those whom we call representatives of interspheral spaces. For this reason, not only the gene structure, but also the external form of their souls differs from the ordinary person of the Earth.
In soul farming, as in any complex manufacturing process, there are variations in quality. However, such souls may turn out to be more resilient, and even having other properties that differ from the standard ones, they may turn out to be more capable of development. These souls are tested to identify their properties, and if necessary, copied again, creating a new branch of souls. As a result, the physical world also acquires a new kind, the development of which is monitored in the spiritual world.

If the newborn soul has acquired sharply different properties, then rejection does not occur. In the astral world, the properties of the medium are such that, at a critical density, it begins to be structured into a living organism due to the creation of many feedbacks in the dense astral medium. Therefore, a new living organism with its own properties is generated.
Each person of the Earth in the process of astral radiations - emotional stress, also generates clots of astral energies near him. As they accumulate, they envelop his body with their clots. And if there are a lot of them, they can unite together, transforming into a creature with signs of a living and intelligent organism. If this person continues to accumulate astral radiations, then he burdens not only his own karma, but also the karma of his family. After his departure from physical life, these energy clots, sometimes similar in shape to a person, are resonantly attracted to one of the members of the genus, who has a gap (ulcer) on the astral body. In this place and on the physical body, a mole is formed - a sign of related inclusion. Through this energy channel, the astral entity itself is fed, which also needs nourishment. As a result, the astral region of the Earth is now heavily polluted. And every person on Earth lives in a sea of ​​energy-information emissions generated by the person himself.

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Various questions related to the soul are revealed at different times. For this, as a rule, appropriate prerequisites are necessary. For example, the initial knowledge about the soul is considered only in the aspect of entering into the essence of its structure, and its place in the human body. In the next period, more complete coverage of issues related to the soul is possible. Obviously, not everyone can accept what goes beyond their worldview, often built on a religious foundation. Subsequent knowledge of the soul will require removal from religious beliefs, therefore such information is revealed gradually, just as a flower bud reveals its final form only in the final period of its flowering. Next, we will share the knowledge about the soul that has not yet been indicated in our earlier materials, and we will also reveal certain laws from the life of souls, including during the period of incarnation on Earth - in our sphere of Conception. Now we will consider separate periods from the life of the soul and get acquainted with the laws of correspondence of the Development of Higher Organisms associated with these periods. Here are some of the excerpts from the list of issues to be disclosed:

1. Each soul is designed to live in a certain spectral range. This is due to the need to exclude power resonant interactions between souls.
2. The number of souls in one spectral range is limited to 6 - 10 billion.
3. New souls are prepared exclusively in the spectra of departed souls, if the entire range is already filled with them.
The reasons for the departure of souls are as follows:
- death due to lack of potential for further development;
- transition to a different spectral range of life, for example, to the Venusian channel;
- the transition of the soul to the Higher spheres in the process of development, and its integration in the human mind.
4. There are no restrictions on the incarnation of souls on Earth. They inhabit any body.
5. In countries where the cult of dragons rules, the souls of dragons are embodied. The spectral range of these souls is different from the spectral range of the souls of the rest of the population of the Earth. Then they return to their planets and then incarnate again on Earth until they take on the form of a person.
6. The soul of a spiritually developed person merges with his atmic body, if it has reached this range in development. Depending on where this person will live, the issue of the possibility of growing a new soul for incarnation on Earth in the same resonant spectrum (with the same technical data of the passport) as the one who left for the Higher worlds is decided. During one Cosmic Cycle the entire spectral range of souls must be used for their final development. Therefore, at the end of the Night of Svarog, the maximum number of souls are embodied on Earth, and at the end of the Summer of Svarog, there are no free spectra left for growing young souls. But about 10% of souls still remain unincarnated due to the fact that they did not have time to purify themselves and gain experience, so they incarnate on the Night of Svarog. Gradually, with the Evolution above (development-degradation), by the end of the Night of Svarog, about 6 billion souls are again incarnated on Earth in order to resume the evolutionary rise in the subsequent Summer of Svarog, renewing the cells of the Creator.
7. Each new Organism is grown from the resources of the Parent's Organism. Therefore, the Parent supplies the young Organism with souls until the young Organism acquires the ability for self-organization, and then for active Development. The body of Svarog has already raised more than one generation of young Gods. Among them, such as Dazhdbog, Perun, Veles and other Svarozhichs are the sons of Svarog. All of them are still so young that souls for them are still being grown by Svarog. Therefore, in the new Cycle of Summer, Svarog will continue to provide young Gods with souls.
Other Higher Organisms - Creators of other branches of Cosmic Life, build the sphere of Conception inside their Organism and improve according to their Technologies.
8. There are many souls on conservation below - in the lower spheres. There are about 3 billion of them. According to them, a separate decision was made on the transfer to the young Gods. A decision was also made to create souls with a new gene structure this Summer of Svarog. This gene structure is more perfect, and it will further advance the evolutionary ascent of the Svarog Organism.
9. Souls who do not want to develop will not force any of them. Each person decides how to evolve. But the Cosmic Law works for everyone, which is created at a level higher than God. It is already known and says: at any level it is impossible to stay more than 2 Cycles.
10. The distribution of souls is as follows:
- some of them will go to technical services;
- a part will perform the tasks of maintaining the shell of the Body - these are abundant spectra of love, characteristic only of the Body of God on the basis of magnetic attraction in the spectra of Love. If we consider young Organisms in general, then they begin the construction of their Body from the construction of its shell. Therefore, they need, first of all, the spectra of Love. In particular, in Metatron's Organism these spectra are of priority. Accordingly, they relay these spectra to the Earth through Kryon and other representatives of the Hierarchy of Light. And in an attempt to use the resources of Svarog, they target them (the people of the Earth) only for their self-organization.
- a part will go to the mental area for the improvement of the Higher Mind of God;
- others will also leave, each in his own specialization to perform certain tasks that are necessary for the full functioning of the Organism;
- there will still be a few million non-embodied souls. But they will not incarnate yet, but will wait for their place in those bodies, the souls of which are subject to disposal. That's what they were recreated for.

What results can be expected from a heart-to-heart conversation? What secrets and secrets do you carry in your soul or secrets your souls. What a relief it brings from mysteries and secrets.

Secrets of your soul.

Secrets of the soul is not the content of secret files or films about the mysterious. It's about the secrets you carry in your .

Family secrets, secret messages, "secrets" from childhood, unsaid - all this burdens your soul,. Maybe it's time to break free? The Psychologist of Happiness.

In our language there is such an expression as "remove a stone from the soul", often such a stone is the secrets of our soul or what we hide from others for fear of losing their respect and losing their approval and love.

Write in the comments, do you have similar “stones” - secrets in your soul that weigh on you?

A heart-to-heart talk relieves stress.

You probably remember what happens in your soul when you speak the truth.

What happens when you tell the truth?

You feel relief, all over your body. After all, along with an unspoken secret, you often keep your feelings about this a secret.

All these secrets cause extraordinary tension in the body. When you open your soul and begin to speak, express emotions, the tension leaves the body.

What should not be saved in the soul?

In any sphere of life, these are, first of all, grievances, unsatisfied needs underlying these grievances, and judgments (assessments).

Whenever you get angry with someone, ask yourself, what do I want and don't get from that person?

And then talk yourself into asking him about it.

Workshop. Here is what I would like to say...

I offer a cleansing and healing procedure for your soul.

1) What secret do you carry in your heart?

Think for a moment and quickly write on the sheet all the secrets, all the unspoken, all hidden behind the seven locks in the depths of your soul.

Here are some secrets from my Clients:

  • I got it in my final exams.

  • At the age of fourteen, I stole a penknife from the market.

  • I'm afraid to confess my feelings to my neighbor.

  • I want to be given a phone.

  • I'm still mad at my school neighbor.

  • I no longer have the strength to hide my relationship with my father.

2) To whom is your secret addressed?

Now think about who your secret message is addressed to, which can't wait to become a reality?

Who is this man? Or a group of people?

Imagine him or her in your imagination. What feelings do you have for the recipient? What would you like to say? About what to pour out your soul?

3) Here's what I would like to say...

Begin to reveal your secret to the light, with the words: "That's what I would like to say...".

Express your pain, anger, fear, or your desires to this imaginary interlocutor.

Tell it like it is. Pour out your soul and remove the stone from your soul.

Cry or scream! Express doubt, regret, or sympathy for yourself or the other person. and others.

All. Now exhale with relief.

4) What gives a heart-to-heart conversation?

A similar practice for many of my Clients, in addition to facilitating:

  • Brings relief from migraines that have tormented for years.
  • Relieves spastic colitis or relieves chronic ulcers.
  • Helps to get out of the swamp and realize how beautiful life is.
  • Removes extra pounds without any diets.

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No, men need something else. They need a deep understanding of the reason for their desire for adventure, struggle and beauty; understanding why God made them the way they are. They need a deep understanding of why women want to fight for them, why women want to share their adventures with them.

“Real men are not critics and not those who point out the mistakes of the strong or talk about how heroes could be more heroic. Honor goes to men on the battlefield, their faces covered with dust and sweat, stained with blood, they fight valiantly ... they know boundless enthusiasm and complete dedication; they are doing worthwhile work; at best, at the end of the path, they receive the laurels of the winner, and at worst, having dared to take a risky step, they fail, but they will never find themselves in the same company with those cold and timid souls who have never known either victory or defeat. Theodore Roosevelt

Eve was created in the sumptuous beauty of the Garden of Eden. Adam, as you remember, was created outside the garden, in the wild. In the second chapter of Genesis, a historical document describing the origin of man, it is explicitly stated that man was created in the wilderness, as part of the wilderness. And only then he was placed in Eden. Perhaps since then, boys never feel at ease indoors, and men have an insatiable desire to learn new things. Men strive to return to their roots, it is at these moments that their life becomes complete.

In 1260, Marco Polo went in search of China. Hannibal made his famous crossing of the Alps. Scott and Amundsen were desperately striving for the South Pole, Peary and Cook - for the North. Magellan sailed due west, around South America, despite warnings that he and his crew would die at the ends of the earth, and Huckleberry Finn, ignoring such warnings, set off down the Mississippi. The desire for adventure, with its attendant dangers and thrills, is inherent in the soul of every man. The male heart longs for a place where there is nothing artificial, modeled, fat-free, zipped, licensed, online, heated in the microwave. Where there is no report deadline, mobile phones or meetings.

Whatever all these researchers were looking for, first of all they were looking for themselves. There are some basic questions in the heart of every man that simply cannot be answered while sitting at the kitchen table. Who am i? What am I made for? What is my purpose? Fear keeps a man at home, where everything is clear, all things lie in their places and are under his control. But a man cannot find answers to his deepest questions at the TV screen or on the refrigerator shelf. The modern way of life harms the male soul.

The lifestyle of modern men leads to the fact that they listen to their hearts less and less. The business world in which most people live and die requires men to be rational and punctual. The policy and system of work of corporations are designed with one goal - to harness a man to work and make him make a profit. The soul yearns for passion, freedom, life. A man needs to feel earthly rhythms; he needs to hold something tangible in his hands - the tiller of a boat, reins, a rough rope, or just a shovel. Can a man go through life keeping his nails clean and tidy? Is this what every boy dreams of?

Society as a whole cannot decide what to do with men. Having spent the last thirty years making men more circumspect, sensitive, manageable and even feminine, it now scolds them for losing their masculinity. The boys are incorrigible, we sigh. As if if a man becomes truly adult, he loses his wanderlust, his wildness and forever settles at home. "Where have the real men gone?" this is the main question of our day. Today we are witnessing a blurring of the boundaries between the sexes like the world has never seen before. How can a man feel like a man if his main goal in life is to watch his manners?

Robert Bly, in one of his books, writes: “Some women need a passive man, if they need one at all; the church needs an obedient man - this will become a clergyman; higher educational institutions need a "tamed, domestic" man - this will be enrolled in the staff; corporations need ... a limited, clean-shaven, perfectly healthy man.

All these demands that society makes on a man can be called the attack of the modern way of life on the male soul.